I caught her for the SECOND time

Well as you know I have a girlfriend, well me and her are like (in love) okay
well.. the first time I caught her talking to some guy over myspace, saying how they could be kissing and moving onto other things, well I talked to her about it and she was mad that I found out, and then she was sad and crying for doing it. then she promised me that she wouldn't do it again, but today. I caught her talking to another guy. It hasn't gotten as serious as the other one was, but I think she is trying to get his # and also they were talking about something stupid like getting in trouble or against the law and stuff and he said watch our i might have to rip the tag off your bed and she was like thats already ripped off but maybe my blankets or pillows and ect. well then he said something it'll be pretty hard for her to get him in her bed , then she said I doubt it will be that hard, and then it ends at that.
Im not going to say anything to her about it this time, cause I dont want her to get mad at me, but you know Im a guy that is nice and can't do anything to hurt anyone or make anyone mad or anything, so im just going to not mention anything to her.
Im going to see where this convo leads between her and this guy. So that I will know for sure what's going on.

PS. The first guy didnt live where we live, but the second guy does.

I seriously dont know what to do, I have a feeling im the one that's going to end up getting cheated on, but im really used to it cause every relationship has gone that way for me, so I stoped dating for 3 years and she is my first serious relationship in 3 years, and there was just something about her that made me take the chance of dating again. Now that I see all of this Im kinda scared that I just fucked myself over for taking the chance of dating. She says sshe loves me and she gets mad at me if I talked to other girls that's why I stoped, but she is steadly talkingn to guys about stuff that is crazy. She promised me she wouldn't do it again and she goes behind my back and does it.

bro, wat shes doing is called FLIRTING. usually its ok, if shes just fucking around. but sometimes it can be serious. as far as im concernred, any flirting like the conversation you told about is grounds for a talking to. just talk to her man. tell her your worried about wats going on. if she really does love you it wont matter. u can wait, and see wats going on, but the longer u wait, the worse it could be. i say crush it now, before anything happens.

No, she promised me she wouldn't ever do it again, and I took her word for it.. I crushed the last one and im not going to crush this one if she really loved me she wouldn't have never lied to me about promising me that she wouldn't ever do it. If she really loved me she would have never been doing this in the first place. Im not going to say anything to her about it.. This is going to be a new test for her that she wont know about.. If she wants to get together with this guy one day, then i'll know what's really going on. So let her make the mistake, I wont be the one to be blamed for it when it comes down to the end. Right???

Besides I can be loaded with chicks if I didn't ignore all of them just for her.
so if she wants to play this little "flirting" game, then 2 can play at it.

alright bro i think your doing right thing tyler and i understand 100% just do what you think is best.. not your fault man your tried all i can see sometimes we can control everything not your fault bro.. Just see what she is up to and if its somthing bad move on.

I've talked to soo many other chicks about this thing, and they all have said it was bullshit that she's doing this to me, and they all say "Tyler, Your too good to be treated like this" .. and then there just always like you deserve better come to me.
and some of them are mad at me because I wont break up with her, but im not going to break up with her just because of the chatting. I told all of them girls that it's going to be okay, she will mess up one day if she continues. If it was meant to be, everything will go good, if it wasn't then something will go wrong.

Ugh i know this all to well. I think you should confront her. I dont think its fair that you sit back while she does that honestly. Not to bash on thee fellow females but i dont feel like siting back and watching that happen. (not watching ,but you know)... So yeah. I say confront her even if it makes her mad. No one deserves that hon.



Xoxoxo

thats wat i said, but u have to do it the right way. dont come at her on the attack or anything. just say "babe, we ned to talk" and sit down together and explain how u feel to her, then ask wats going on.

Beth, you say what the other females have told me.
I am just scared to comfront her again, cause if I do then I have a chance of losing her

Either way, what I chose, and what I do. There's a chance of me losing her and I dont want that to happen I seriously dont.
She's putting me through alot , I am taking it all in and just holding it there like I have done with my past.

bro, life is all about taking chances man. u need to take the chance and talk to her about this. if she truly does love you like she says, she wont mind, and she wont blame you for worrying,

ok i know that everyone is saying confront her but if you havnt yet then imo you should wait a bit and see where it is going though ill bet its just going to get worse. if it does get worse you have to leave her man. shes not worth it. she will just fuck you over in the end and it will hurt much more than if you just end it. good luck

Thanks, but after talking to her on the phone last night everything changed non of it even mattered anymore im so in love with this girl it's unreal.

congrats man

Just now when I like talk to her, I just think of this kinda of stuff and it puts me depressed again lol...

Its ok god loves you!

Fuck god -_-

lol ^^ Nice